“Perfect Picture Book” Friday

Bigger than a Dream

Written by:  Jef Aerts

Illustrated by:  Marit Tornqvist

Originally Published by:  Levine  Querido, Books Netherlands 2013  Translated by David Colmer and published in November 2020 by First Printing.

Ages:    4 – 8 years

Theme: Life, death, questions

Opening Lines:   The first time I heard her, I was sitting at the table eating some marzipan.  Suddenly there was a rustling in my ear. I tried to wiggle it out with my finger.

Synopsis:   from Amazon:-  :   People fear death (apparently just a tiny bit less than public speaking). We don’t know how to talk about it, especially to children, and we’re afraid to bring it up for fear of making people sadder.

Yet children, especially, have questions, and this incredibly gentle and surprisingly light story is full of both comfort and vividly imagined “answers.” The first one gives the book its title: A boy hears the voice of his sister calling him one day, a sister he’s never met because she died before he was born. The sister in the faded photograph on the wall. So that night he asks his mother what death is like and she tells him, “It’s like dreaming, only bigger.”

That’s lovely, but he still has questions, which it turns out his sister can answer! On a dreamy, carefree adventure they ride their bikes together, (not always on the ground), visiting places that were special to her when she was alive. And she talks to him in the older sister, teasing, straightforward, loving way that is exactly what he needs. (It turns out that death is not the only thing that can be Bigger Than a Dream.)

Much, much more than bibliotherapy, this is a work of art that speaks with honesty and tenderness about one of life’s great mysteries

Why I like this:  This is a beautiful moving book about death. Young kids always have questions and the topic of death is another mystery.  Marit’s rather dreamy style is ideally suited to such a sensitive subject as a sister’s death. This story is based on Jef’s own life as his sister died before he was born and although he grew up in a house where she was not there, yet she was everywhere. As a child he felt his sister came to visit him and this is what inspired this story. It has beautiful tender moments, lyrical and dreamy.  Keep tissues handy. 

Resources:  author’s website…  https://www.jefaerts.com/bigger-than-a-dream.html

Author talks about his book….   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dpSGsjV3Omc

An interesting chat from illustrator Marit Tornoqvist. In her attic studio in the Netherlands …   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQGGwgCDDr8

Illustrator’s beautiful website…     http://www.marittornqvist.nl/en/   Check out her prints, postcards and calendars.

I’m always happy reviewing Picture Books that come my way and share them with you.  If you would like to see more please pop over to Susanna Leonard Hills Blog where there are hundreds of books reviewed by other like-minded authors and writers.  Thank you for popping in and I hope you return again soon.

About Diane Tulloch

Known also as the Patientdreamer I am a writer who loves to dream, and is passionate about writing stories for the young so that they may join me in the wonders of adventure in countries and cultures afar, and in special moments to remember.
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10 Responses to “Perfect Picture Book” Friday

  1. Wow wow wow This sounds amazing! I just put it on hold at the library. Thanks for a great rec!

  2. What an inspiring book and a different and loving approach to the topic of death for kids. I love the mother’s explanation of death is like dreaming. I am going to have to find this one. Thank you for sharing it this weekend — it’s appropriate because of Memorial Day here. And every year TAPS holds it national conference for families who’ve lost loved ones in war. I used to write about it every year.

  3. I hope I can find it. I must be super-abnormal because I enjoy books – esp picture books – about death! If you haven’t read it, here is one for adult’s I recommend: Dying: A Memoir, by Cory Taylor.

    • I hope you managed to find this one. No I don’t think it’s abnormal at all. Thanks for the reco I haven’t seen that one at all. Will see if I can find it in my local. Thanks Julie.

  4. Darlene says:

    What a lovely book. Kids do have many questions about death and this would be such a great way of opening a discussion. Thanks.

  5. Joanna says:

    How important. How beautiful.

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